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好奇实验室 | 灵魂36问是否会让两个人坠入爱河 Can 2 Fall in Love with 36 Questions

Sat, 19 Sep 2020 14:00:00 GMT+08 ~ Thu, 01 Oct 2020 16:00:00 GMT+08
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    感觉被生活和职场PUA了?多久没跟自己的灵魂对话了?上一次走心聆听别人又是什么时候?展现脆弱就不可爱了吗?

    美国心理学家 Arthur Aron 博士,在<人际亲密感的产生:实验程序及部分初步发现>一文中,曾设计了一个实验:他让参与实验的陌生人,两两分组坐在一起,在45分钟内,让他们彼此提问并回答36个问题,回答之后让彼此凝视4分钟。最终实验结论:发展亲密关系的关键,是要双方不断持续和深入地相互坦白自己的内心。只要两个人彼此足够坦诚、相互分享与交流,人们是可以快速喜欢上一个陌生人的。

    A psychologist conducted an experiment that could lead any two people to fall in love with just 36 questions

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    Arthur Aron博士的这个“爱上陌生人”的实验,后来被很多人所效仿。一位大学教授Mandy Len Catron,和刚认识的一位陌生男人,尝试了此实验,结果迅速培养出感情,坠入情网。她把自己的经历,在《纽约时报》的情感专栏上发表了文章<只要你这么做,想爱上任何人都可以>,随后这系列的36个问题在各种社交网络上走红,引起了众多人的兴趣与试验,被称之为“爱上任何人的36个问题”。Julibee团队在Youtube拍摄了一组叫<Tea for Two>的视频,来亲自验证两个陌生人回答完这36个问题的之后,是否还有意愿go for a second date. 

    Jubilee Team from Youtube created a series of videos called <Tea for Two> and decided to see for themselves exactly what would happen if they brought 2 complete strangers together to answer those questions on a blind date. 

    这次,在北京,我们作为试验官的一员,期待把这样的体验一同带给对此感兴趣的你们。

    HERE IN BEIJING, we hope together with you to bring the experience to those who are interested in this experiment. 

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    实验流程:

    2pm-2:30pm 朝阳公园集合,一起玩OH卡(源于德国的潜意识投射卡)破冰。

    - 2:30pm-3:30pm 主持人给出36个问题,分享一些倾诉和聆听原则,视情况两两分组或多人一组行问答。

    - 3:30pm-4pm 主持人组织大家分享实验感受,每位嘉宾互相介绍和认识。随后后大家可以随兴聚餐或小酌

    - 2pm-2:30pm - Meet at Chaoyang Park, and then have an ice-breaking interaction.

    - 2:30pm-3:30pm Host will share36 questions, share some principles of talking and listening, and group you in pairs or small groups.

    - 3:30pm-4pm Host will invite everyone to share their feelings about the experiment, everyone will introduce themselves and get to know each other. Afterwards, everyone can have dinner together.

    实验要求:

    - 参与者是单身状态

    - 请在活动行报名,报名后请加主持人Sunnie微信进群:chenqianyi999,备注<36问+姓名>

    - 考虑的实验配对性,报名后无法赴约请提前告知,否则会记在小本本将无法参加以后的活动

    We hope you:

    - To be very single

    - Register at the HuodongXing App or website, and please add host Sunnie on Wechat: chenqianyi999

    - Inform us in advance that you will not be able to attend the event after registration, otherwise you will not be able to participate in future events.

    动说明:

    - 不要求会英语哒

    - 纯自我探索+实验室形式交友,非blind date,非心理/婚恋机构

    - 深入聊天容易拉近彼此距离,同时也请各位试验官注意保护好自己

    - 实验会安排不曾问过彼此这36个问题的两个人,也会在尊重大家意愿基础上灵活调整形式

    - 往期参加的伙伴以85后、90后为主,每期限定20位试验官

    - 朝阳公园有5元门票费

    放下探探,撕掉标签,赤诚相见~ 玩过36问的伙伴都说神奇。相信觉得这个实验有趣的,都一定是对味的人呀 :)

    More info you might want to know:

    - Pure self-exploration + lab-style blind dating, NOT hosted by any psychological/marriage agency

    - The experiment will involve two people who speak the same language but have never asked each other these 36 questions

    - Chaoyang Park has a 5yuan entrance fee

    - You are very welcome to join!

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    组织者和主持人Sunnie,跨语言和文化工作者。

    从<遇见未知的自己>到<心流>到<非暴力沟通>到OH卡,

    到BMC北京正念中心<自我关怀>

    和 Isha<内在工程>内修,再到戏剧表演,

    感兴趣一切与自己与世界连接的趣事,和一群对味的人。

    Sunnie Chan, Chinese instructor, host of Chinese Gang event.


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    • 徐铭蔚 3天前

      你好,看到你们的活动,感觉很有意思,我是7270后,对这个活动很好奇,可以参与吗?(单身)

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